Discovered Feelings!

Dear Gossip Monger,

I hope you have nurtured your news hungry soul well enough by now, but want you to read my two cents.

Oh, so you wanted to scoop someone's life and yap about it in your circle of friends. I am struggling to understand the emotional benefit you would draw from this activity. I can imagine talking about funny quirks, but discussing and exaggerating one's personal woes is uncalled for.

You need to realize that you have lost the ethical battle by gossiping about your friend's life, who once trusted you innocently. Did you even see his shoes or trace his foot prints to declare an authority over his journey?  In the name of trusted friendship, you have assassinated his character in public and hence you are no different from a criminal. You have emotionally stripped him in front of his community and now you pretend concern!.

Why don’t you get a life for yourself before venturing to dissect someone's personal life? My hunch is you have already lost reputation in your circle for being such a nasty gossip monger and people have stopped confiding in you. At this stage, I can only sympathize with your lonely, depressed life who is deprived of true relationships anymore.

Dude, stop gossiping about shaken personal lives and start supporting them if you can! Not everyone is as fortunate as you to idle around ranting news. When a victim is trying to heal the wound, you have no right to hurt him/her again, by probing about the hurt that too behind the person’s shadow. A research suggests that world’s greatest miracles originated from worst hit victims of life and if you try to obstruct this process, you might as well be left bedazzled at the strength of their willpower. It is a small circular world which has constantly shone through the process of Karma. You know what I mean (Smug n Shrug)!

- Frustrated soul